Different forms of love

New love is kind of funny. It reminds you of everything the old love was, but it feels different. Your with a different person, the relationship is run differently. In the end you realize that love is love. Its hard. Love is different and comes in many different forms. In relation to family its unconditional. Your sister could kill another humane being and you would be by her side. No matter what anyone in your family does, you know that family is family and that love will be there regardless. When it comes to spouses, there are a different kind of standards. We want our spouse to be perfect. As soon as they mess up we go into an uproar, "how dare he/she do this to me? But if it were a family member doing the same to their spouse your lips would be sealed and you wouldn't dare stop loving them. Maybe relationships don't work out because instead of applying unconditional love to our relationships we make conditions. Granted your partner might do some pretty harsh things, but is it really hard to work them out? Do doing these things makes us love them any harder. And what a country for non forgiveness. Leave him/her most people shout as soon as they hear of infidelity, but if you love your spouse do you automatically lose the love for them because they stepped out on the relationship? Can't the trust be re-built?